Many people are writing about their New Year’s Resolution and all I can say is,
Be careful what you write.
A New Year could mean new relationships or a new opportunity just waiting around the corner. You could meet a new friend or get a new job. You could even move to a less expensive city. But, we must all heed the warning,
be careful what you wish for.
To give you a concrete example when you say that you want to go on a diet, then your friends should not catch you eating this:
We are the creators of our own Universe. We are the ones who shape our own destinies. Our ideas turn into actions and every action we take turns into a behavior. So, if you say you are going to do something, then, follow through and do it. Utter the words and make it happen. You will love yourself more for it.
Happiness is a result of your emotions matching to your actions.
If you exude emotional dissonance, then you will most certainly be unhappy. Sometimes even when you do what you plan to do the outcome is the same because you are not satisfied with the result. My main New Year’s Resolution is to collect my thoughts in writing and share them with the world, to write on various topics, and then write a collective masterpiece to help people put tools under their belt to navigate through life.
Just when you thought it was over, it has only just begun.
So, if you find yourself creating a New Year’s Resolution, then you must hold yourself to your words.
So Mote it Be.